aRe yoU In LovE OR jUsT a LuST!!!

It's so difficult to tell. So what do you need to know to ensure you've got it right?

Lust

You know how it feels. You probably don't care why it feels that way. You're just loving it. But you do care about not falling for your partner purely because you lust after them.

Lust is integral with the first part of any sound intimate relationship - it's the infatuation (or romance) stage. But maybe you're now questioning, 'Am I really in love with them, or is it just lust?'

The problem you face, if you're asking this question from within that first part of a relationship, is - it's almost impossible to work out the answer once you're in it!

Ideally, you'd have worked out well before you start dating anyone who you need to get with in order to be truly compatible. If you haven't done that then I suggest you need to do it now.

Why is this important?

Because the difference between a relationship that turns into love and one that ends at lust is compatibility.

Lust is all centered around your 'sexual compatibility'. If your partner's face and physique fits your map of what's gorgeous, if they talk, move and communicate in a way that pushes your buttons, then you have lust. And I know how fantastic that feels!

However, if you lack the compatibility on other levels, then when the chemicals start to fade from your body, the lust will disappear and you'll be left with someone who you probably don't even fancy any more and certainly don't love.

Of course, it's possible to fall in love with someone and not be fully compatible - but that's another issue! What I'm really saying is that a relationship that's about lust is almost wholly based around the element of 'sexual compatibility'. And that's not enough for a truly loving relationship.

So what are your options at this point in time?

1. Wait till the lust dies down and see what's left
2. Work out if you're compatible with your current partner

according to: http://www.therelationshipgym.com/love_or_lust.htm

the article i had posted could make you think if you're really in love or you just feel lust with your partner. maybe, at this point of time you want to know what you really feels...if you are in love or just a lust....here's a tip! visit the website http://www.espin.com/quizzes/love-or-lust/result?tsid=ea6abcf4122d8a6be6ee3ccc51d2130c&qid=20 to find out if your are truly in love or not,,

it will excite you! i assure.. because i, myself, had taken the test and the result was LOVE!!

see for yourself and when you find it interesting you can share it with your friends and get to compare scores..

HmMmMmm......????

OoopPssS..

this Is my First Time to CompoSe a Blog and i really don't knoW what to sAy,,,
words just don't come out into my mind...

Well, to start with this thing,i find it interesting because i can post whatever i want to, any topics i want to discuss or give my insights or opinions about a certain issue...

In some Other blog, i was able to read some of it and they just express anything they want to and feel..

since this is a requirement for us in our computer class to have something to write on this blog spot, i need to think of some topics that i will find very interesting so that i can write as many as i could...

right now, i'm thinking of some possible topics that i will try to give some opinions. maybe some of my favorite books, songs, movies, or something i would like to share like some of my experiences whether good or not,,

somehow this requirement of our subject give us knowledge and new learnings about blogs because not all people knows that this thing exist and doesn't even really know what is this all about..

as of this moment, my thoughts had changed, i find this thing very nice because words are just coming out in my mind on what to write today. it made me express the feelings i have in making a blog as a first timer. it's not yet easy but it's simply enjoyable.now i can say that i am ready to post more blogs and be eager enough for it.